Tuesday, June 28, 2011

James Thomas (JT) Cheney

James finally decided to arrive at 4:16am on June 22, 2011. He weighed 9 lbs 5 oz, and was 21 inches long!

On the evening of the 21st I started feeling contractions. By 10:30am they were closer together and consistent... about 4 minutes apart and lasting about 30 seconds. The intensity increased and I called the birthing center around midnight. They said to monitor it for the next 30 minutes to an hour and then call back. Mean while John cleaned, so we could come home to a clean house. The time went fairly quickly and I had not called the Center back.. and they actually called me! I told them I thought it was time to come in. Contractions were about 3 minutes apart lasting 40-50 seconds... It was about 1:30 am at this point. They were already at the Orem Birthing Center, so that is where we headed. I was planning on going to the SLC center because it's a little closer, but I told them I would go to either one. We got to the center around 2:15 am. I was 6 cm... so I figured I had about four hours to go. Lizzy was still wide awake she was so excited! We put her on the bed, and turned the lights down and she finally went to sleep around 3am. I used a yoga ball for a while, the contractions seemed to be getting closer and more intense. I wanted to get in the tub at this point... I hoped it would easy some pain, but for me didn't seem to do much. We had the midwife come check to make sure the water temp was ok, my contractions were about a minute apart and I was almost in tears. I told John to get the camera out and ready, just in case. He took a couple pictures and helped me through some rough contractions.

All of a sudden my water broke - it's hard to write the sound and feeling, but we were pretty sure that is what it was, then I also felt a stool coming, I didn't know if I should go to the toilet or what... the midwives rushed in and said stay, they had a fishing net to catch it. Then I felt what was like a huge stool... which was really JT. At this point I was on all fours in the water. I pushed about four times and he was out! The midwife directed JT between my legs and I pulled him up into my arms and sat back. What an amazing experience!! We quickly noticed the cord around his neck, and loosened that. He also has some fluid in his lungs. His breathing was a little rough, but quickly got better. I just held him for a while until everything seemed more stable. Then John got to cut the cord. John tried to wake up Lizzy, but she was so tired & went right back to sleep.

We moved to the bed. They checked me, and I tore the same as I did with Lizzy and needed two stitches. John got some bonding time with JT. They checked JT, took his measurements, etc. Then I fed him. I think it was about 6:30am by the time we got the chance to fall asleep!

Around 9am JT started to cry. Lizzy woke up at this point, looked over and her eyes got huge!! She wondered where the baby came from! She then got really excited. We were all hungry, so one of the helpers at the birthing center made us some oatmeal and croissant sausage & egg sandwiches, and brought me an Orange Juice! John said it felt like a Bed & Breakfast! The room was nice, and had a fireplace. We put a movie on for Lizzy to watch, made some phone calls, sent pictures via txt, email, and facebook. We took our time getting things packed up, we were to check out at 12:50pm. We stopped by Mikes place so he could see JT and then headed back home, with a quick stop to pickup lunch at Cafe Rio, and John's office so he could check JT.

John resting with JT
First outfit for the trip home.
right before we left - our first family photo of the four of us!

Lizzy loves TJ and wants to be right next to him, and hold him all the time.
She helps where she can.
He is so precious!
We went for the 2 day checkup and JT had dropped to 8.5 lbs. I asked about how the rest of the day went for the midwives (because there were more than usual births that day). There were 5 births and one false labor!! Wow, what a busy day. She said there was about 5 days that they didn't have any births and kinda had a feeling something like this may happen!

It's been almost a week now. We are adjusting to having two kids. Lizzy loves her brother and has done will with the transition. There are times where she acts up and wants more attention, but overall she's doing well. I try to include her in what I can, and she loves to help get things for me, like a diaper, wipes, blanket, throw the diaper away. etc. Well all love giving JT kisses on the head.

Monday, June 13, 2011

Still waiting....

Thursday after work and dinner we decided to take a drive to the birthing center. John had not been there before because the center moved in April, and he wanted to make sure he knew the best way to get there. I like to take 4500 S, but online says it's faster if you take 3300 S. So we took 3300 S. to test out the timing. Well our plans where foiled while we waited at the light on 900 E. I was turned, looking at Lizzy when I heard a loud bang, and felt a jolt. Yep we got rear ended!! The person behind us was hit by some someone. We all turned the corner to get off the busy street, however the person that caused the accident kept on driving!!! John and the other lady where surprised they didn't stop. I called 911, and was a little shaken up ... I was 9 months pregnant, one day over my due date at the time! My neck was "burning" - had a warm sensation... and my shoulder hurt. But nothing major. The ambulance did come, even though I told them I didn't need one. They took my vitals and said Blood Pressure looked good. Pulse was a little high, but that's expected. So, I hope hoping this incident may help bring on Labor but here I am Monday morning... still pregnant!

This picture was taken a month ago...

Monday, June 6, 2011

An update

What a great idea... my sister posted this, and I think it would be fun to post every year to see how things change.

An interview with Lizzy
What is your favorite movie? How to Train a Dragon
What is your favorite game? Dora wii game
What is your favorite animal? kitties, doggies, horses
What is your favorite holiday? Easter
What is your favorite color? all the colors
What is your favorite food? Pizza, fruit
Favorite song? ABC's , spider, twinkle little star
What is your favorite vegetable? carrots, peas, broccoli
What is something you like about Mom? cleaning dishes - "I like to clean dishes with you"
What is something you like about Dad? when he comes home from work I give him kisses and hugs
What do you want to be when you grow up? a cowgirl and a rockstar
What's hard to do? When I bump my head
What have you learned in Primary this year? I like snacks...
What are some things you like to do? play games with daddy and mommy
What do you like to wear? Church clothes
What things make you happy? grandpa, daddy, Grandma Cheney
What makes you sad? When daddy puts me in timeout
What do you do when you are mad? cry when I'm in timeout
What is something you're good at? going to help the baby, and hold him and rock him